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Nothing like your 5-year-old calling you out for having a child out of wedlock. “You need to be with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.” Abby smiled a shy little smile. “I think I already know who I want to spend the rest of my life with.” Eyes wide, I asked, “Who? When you came to school for lunch this week, he’s the boy who sat with us.” She’s five. I was just taking her hand to help her out of a car, and I knew. (Not unexpected for divorced folk.) I certainly don’t have all the answers, but I have learned some life lessons the hard way on what it means to be in love. When your baby sister comes to you with this question, can you please pass along the high points? I'm a mom to three girls, a recovering perfectionist, and the author of Happy You, Happy Family.
She catches me and Ty kissing and says “I saw you” in a teasing voice.
When I turned 18 my dad gave me all of my own bills. I want to disclose that I don’t think it’s awful to occasionally let your parents help you out financially.
Sure, he would help me out if I really needed it but I paid my car payment, insurance, bought my food, and ventured out on my own at a very early age. If you are giving it your absolute all then you may have no other choice. Personally, I would never accept a dime from my dad.
Strong leaders surround themselves with strong people, not with weak ones.
You might want to worry less about terrorizing or retro-fitting prospective suitors and worry more about preparing your daughter to choose wisely. Instead of intimidating all your daughter’s potential suitors, raise a daughter who intimidates them just fine on her own. It’s about the humble looking for those whose strengths offset their weaknesses and complement their strengths.
Which begs the question: Settling for a deadbeat loser is like settling for a job you hate.
There are way too many people who hate their jobs and keep on doing them, just like there are way too many women who settle for men who treat them poorly.
Although, she might get a preview here and there in light of this Carver boy proposing marriage and all. Make room in your life for someone who truly and completely loves you. Maybe the love you find will be different from what I found. So let's stop trying to be perfect parents and just be real ones. Get 25 incredibly helpful cheat sheets that will ease your parenting struggles.
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